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Does anyone have suggestions on how for me to get my husband to want to helpn with our girls. I try and ask him for help but when i do he says sure with an attitude as if he dont want to an i have to force him to. I just feel as if he don't want to help... Someone please help me!!!
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Stop letting Him take the easy road. I went thru this with my husband and was constantly mad at him for not helping and letting me get a break...you know to shower! my answer I leave written instructions of when to feed,nap etc. then I go out for a few hours...even the grocery store can be therapeutic.
Positive reinforcement..Just like with a child..Please and thank you go a long way..Especially if he does help out from time to time w/out being asked. Lots of appreciation may lead him to want to help..Also maybe a night out w/ your friends would help him realize he's capable of doing more.
I agree with the above comment, he should be getting up with the girls-it sounds like you have twins? And he should be involved in everyday things-bathing bedtime and playtime. I am married to a wonderful man and he helps out whenever he can. He works two jobs and still gets up with Bella at least three times a week. Your husband needs to know that if he would help out more around the house that maybe you might not be so tired at night........
First off, your profile said your married to a wonderful man. I sure do hope that its true. Your husband should not give you any attitude with helping out with your girls nor should you have to force him too. If they are his daughters its his obligation as their father to take care of them. Its his obligation as your husband to help you out and take care of them. My only suggestion is to communicate with your husband.He may not show that he cares but i think its about time you let him know how you feel and that you need help with the kids. Remember, it takes two to make a baby so the work should be equal.