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My daughter is 5 months old, and she was 4 months when we brought her to his parents house. I had to give my baby to my husband's parents to look after when I realized that my health isn't doing so well. I had Carpo-tunnel in both my wrists and I am not in the healthy state of losing sleep as I had problems with frequent headaches and migranes even before my daughter was born. Now I am getting better, but there's a new problem. Because of the fact that his parents live in another state that is 4 1/2 hours away from us, we could only visit once every 2 weeks. Recently, my daughter started to not want me at all. No matter it is that I tried to hold her or feed her or play with her, she will cry as soon as she sees me. This problem is only on me as my husband seems to be fine with her. She laughs when she sees him and plays with him! I am frustrated and hurt as I love my daughter very very much and seeing that she does not want to even look at me, let alone bonding, I feel like I am a bad mom for letting her live with someone else and me not able to watch her because of my health. What can I do to get the bonding back as when I was with her before she left me?

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she will get used to you again. My parents left me with my grandparents for several weeks and apparently the same thing happened and I don't even remember it!

It's carpal tunnel, not carpo tunnel.

I don't think you should feel like your a bad mom. As a matter of fact you did what was best for your daughter and have her grandparents watch her. You need to get healthy so that you can play with her and not have your health get in the way. Your daughter is still young. So she's just starting to get familiar with faces, colors and shapes. Because you see her once every two weeks have her grandparents put up pictures of you. They should show her your picture and say mama. You could even call her on the phone and just listen to her ga's and goo's and while doing that they can put your picture next to the phone. Its an idea and i'm sure it'll work. I have a half brother and half sister that are like twenty some years older than i am. They lived with their mother in the states. I never met them until i was 14 years old. But my mom and dad played it safe. They had their pictures up in the house while my brother, sister and i was growing up and they would always tell us that they were our brother and sister. So when we met them it was like we knew them forever. We had such a strong bond because we just knew that they were our brother and sister. I hope it'll work for you until you get better :)