Don't think about getting pregnant. My husband and I actually tried to have a baby before we were married, I stopped birth control and we tried and tried. Then out the blue he decided to propose to me. I then went back on birth control because I didn't want to get pregnant and people think that we just got married because I was pregnant and not because we loved each other and wanted to be together for the rest of our lives. Needless to say he proposed in November 06, we planned our wedding for August 07 and I found out I was pregnant in June 07. I was so upset my dresses were altered and everthing was in place for the wedding (mind u I was still on birth control) well the wedding worked out, the honeymoon was a blast and my beautiful daughter joined us in February 08. But remember everything happens for a reason and God bless us when he see fit. I am in the National Guards, right before my wedding I found out my unit was being deployed to Iraq. Thank God I can't go because my baby is too young for me to leave, my unit left for Iraq last month. She is truly a lifesaver!