My son is 16.He is in a boys only school.He is tennis champion of his school.He is not that much good player.He believes that none of girls are good in any sports.I even arguued with him about it.Then I decided myself to take the challange.I used to play tennis at my schooltime.When game started I realized he is not at all good in tennis.In any other situations I may let him to win.I got two sets easily.But 3 set game is only for woman and for boys game is out of 5 sets.He also told me that he was only checking my game,So I decided to play powershot.At on point of game he came near to net to play a shot but seeing that I gave a powershot.The ball hit his testicles.He collapsed there and start to cry and moan.His voice changed to like 3 year old girl'I helped him to his room and gave some ice.Although he feel better but still he is walking with openlegs.It is funny to others like my sister and her daughter to see him walking with cupping his privates.But he is embarrassed even to talk to me or my sister.he is just spending time in his room.How could i remove his fear and embarrassment?Please help me to get friendly with my only child
my advice to you is ask your husband to talk to him.He has the same body parts as your son.They can relate to each other.I think he needs a good man to man talk.Good luck I think this will pass in time.
wow, this is a hard one. all you can do is get him alone and try to talk to him about it. 16 sucks for boys or girls, its not been that long since i was 16. but its a big deal to talk to him, explain it was an accident and tell him why you played the way you did. he cant continue looking down on women, really thats the main thing here. if he never forgives you for hittin him (on accident) he needs to know that we can do whatever he can...etc. it sucks, but all you can do is talk to him, give him a few days after the game then just get it over with...hope it helps..