I have this strong feeling that my husband is cheating on me. I don't know what to do! At what point is it okay to check his email account and voice messages? I just know that there's something very, very wrong...
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From my experience, women's intuition is always right!
usually your gut is right! but i would check his email and his voice mail and everything else! And if he gets mad at you or doing it tell him if he is not doing anything wrong then he should not be mad.
My ex-husband cheated on me. What I did was put a voice activated tape recorder under his car seat as he was getting ready for work or before his "meeting." I got the rat on tape... When he returns, take out the tape and put a new one in. If you have a second recorder, you can play that tape while the other recorder is getting the new stuff. You can buy these tape recorders anywhere.
If you think h is cheating -- anytimr !
It all depends on what you think he is doing? How do you know he is cheating. Is he not coming home, is he not sleeping with you? To see a lawyer is very extreme especially if you do not know whats happening. I cheated 5 yrs ago on my husband. He figured it out only because I sent an email to his neice instead of my girlfriend. I know why I turned to another man. My husband and I just hit our 11th anniversary and are going strong now and got through it. You have to decide to go talk to him and find out how he feels about your relationship. Does he feel unwanted from you. There are so many scenarios. You need to talk and if you cant talk then your marriage was not strong in the first place. We talked and talked and got through it all and not for the kids. We did it for us.
Hey,if your gut is telling you that something is going on then you know that something is going on. Just be very carful.. Don't think that you are the only person going through this.
I think your marriage has a problem that you need to address right out in the open. If you don't trust him the issue is not really whether or not he is cheating but why you can't trust him. Whether he is cheating or not the simple fact of your distrust will end up destroying your marriage and intimacy. Open conversation is hard but he needs to know how much you love him and how bad you feel so that he can do things to help build your trust. I learned long ago that my feelings do matter so even if something I am feeling may seem on the surface "silly" I now always tell him how I feel.
I think you should spy on him, but don't confront him. This way, if nothing's going on you can pretend you never thought this way and your mind will be at ease. If there is something wrong, you'll be able to prove it. But you should see a lawyer before confronting him. Good luck.