No, I disagree wholeheartedly, you don't know that they all want want she has. That is patently ridiculous to assume. But to the original poster, try a girl's night. Yeah, things will be awkward at first, but if they're your friends, they'll help you adjust, and understand your newly set boundaries. I am the only one in my group with a child, and I know which of my friends adore her and who would rather not have babysitting duties. You NEED time out of the nest, babe. It makes you a better mom and wife to take care of yourself. And if your friends took a hard left turn into sucksville somewhere between your 2nd and 3rd trimesters, hit meetup.com and find a mom group.