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I'm 39 weeks pregnant with my fourth child, I have three boys at home already. My 7 and 5 yr olds for what ever reason can't be bothered to stay out of TROUBLE. I mean I made 4 loaves of Banana Bread and between the two of them they eat 2. In one day. Never mind that my sanity level is exceeded every ten seconds. Now for whatever reason my husband can't seem to stop yelling and fighting with either myself or my kids.
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stop losing your head. Don't fight so much with your husband and kids
I think if you were to have a family meeting -- lay down the law !
Trust me those little ones understand and so does your husband when you lay the law down ! You will have a more peaceful home and more control in your home, especially wih the children. Trust me if you do not get control it is only going to get harder. Good luck and make no mistake being firm does say I LOVE YOU !
Have everything you wish to say layed out before the meeting and go for it! I found that a "family meeting" helped a lot. It may save your sanity in turn keeps everyone else from loosing it and running wild. I kmow how little boys can be.
i hear you and i'm not evven pregnant anymore. but when i was and everyone and thing seemed to be going over the edge, i either waited for my husband to come home or i called a friend to come over and take of thing s while I went out to get a milkshake or just go and sit in a diner and i even drove to the mall and just sat in the food court (bathrooms were closest there) and people watched. I knew everyone would be fine and that no one would starve or be beaten (especially by me) and just enjoyed being with me!! I still do this at times. son is 11 daughter is 2 and hubby is 42 so it doesn't matter who is doing what at the moment. You gotta always remember to take that time away for you and the baby!! Congrats by the way!!
thake a day off, see if they like that.